By Terry L. Brock
All right! Enough already! We’ve heard it over and over about the tough times and how the economy is on a roller coaster. Is this a new era? Are we facing another Great Depression? What is going to happen to the credit and financial markets?
Well, I’d be happy to tell you what is going to happen but my crystal ball is broken. However, I can see what works with human nature and how people overcome challenges and we can learn from that and grow.
When times get tough — as they have and will again and again — they provide a wonderful opportunity to begin anew. As human beings we achieve more and become our very best when we overcome serious obstacles and challenges.
Don’t fear the hard times — embrace them. “Comfort does not produce greatness” is a wonderful Buddhist saying a friend of mine shared with me recently. Be honest with yourself and you might find a few times when you focused more on comfort than producing the greatness for yourself and for others. This is human nature.
You could sit in a bathtub of warm water all day. But it won’t make you strong. It will only give you wrinkles! Get out of that warm water, dry off, get dressed and get ready to charge into the real world. Face what is out there. Yes, there will be tough times. Yes, there will be some setbacks. Welcome to my planet. It works that way here. However, as you embrace the challenges, overcome obstacles and gain more skills you become a better person.
Jim Rohn said it very well when he said that you should strive to earn a million dollars. You don’t have to do it for what you can buy with the million dollars. You could choose to give it all away. However, make it a goal to earn the million dollars because of who you’ll become in the process. Do it for the skills you’ll master along the journey.
Tough times bring out the best — and worst — in people. Tough times have a way of cutting out the dross, the nonsense (and a few other color metaphors). Think of it like a ship tossed at sea. Cargo which doesn’t contribute to sustaining the ship is thrown overboard during violent storms. That which does not contribute to the sustenance of the ship is discarded as it has to be. Be proactive in eliminating the dross from your own business and life.
Take this opportunity to become more of the better person you want to be. Learn new skills. Study revenue-generating ideas in books, magazines, Blogs, podcasts, seminars and elsewhere. Study diligently how to improve critical, revenue-generating areas of your business operation.
Build new relationships and nurture existing, profitable relationships. Now is also a good time to eliminate those areas of your life that aren’t serving you. Now is an excellent time to examine your Relationship Marketing efforts. What is working? What is not? Tough times have a way of helping show who is really with you and who was merely saying nice things during the good times.
This would be a great time to meet with your team of top coaches, employees, consultants and other trusted advisors. Have frank and candid meetings with them to explain where you are, what is going on now and the opportunities for the future. The old WOTS analysis (Strengths, Weaknesses, Threats and Opportunities) strategy is perfect for this.
This is a particularly pungent time for us as a nation. We’re facing a major election. Politicians, as they are inclined by nature, see the solution as political. I see it differently. Whoever is elected and whichever party controls the reins of government, your success is ultimately up to you. The solution is not political. It is in personal achievement. Your success is up to you, not the politicians who are elected. You have to take matters into your own hands to get better, achieve your own goals and help others.
Focus on doing Relationship Marketing right. That is one of the best skills you can master. Find out ways to serve others and help them in this time of challenges. As you serve others and help them meet their needs, you’ll be able to meet your own needs.
Now is not the time to focus on comfort. Get out of that warm bathtub water, for crying out loud! Take decisive, results-oriented steps to build your Relationship Marketing. Become the better person that you really know you can be and want to be. Today is a perfect opportunity to do it.
When you succeed and achieve your goals you’ll become someone you can be proud of and then comfort will be even sweeter. Hey, you might even treat yourself to a warm bath — for a short time!
Terry Brock is an international marketing coach and columnist who helps businesses market more effectively, leveraging technology. He shows busy professionals how to squeeze more out of their days using time-honored rules and practical technology tools. He can be reached at 407-363-0505, by e-mail at terry@terrybrock.com or through his website at www.terrybrock.com.






January 31st, 2009 at 4:42 am
Если не секрет, автор блога откуда родом?
November 29th, 2008 at 1:44 pm
За статью премного благодарен, все по делу, достаточно много кто это уже применяет
October 21st, 2008 at 9:58 am
Terry!
I am personally thrilled to see that we speakers are sharing more and more the theme that “Crisis is an opportunity!” And so it is.
I am also thrilled that more and more we citizens are being reminded that everything we want, need and wish for begins with us.
As your friend, The Habit of Excellence® Expert, Max Howard, is wont to say, “Excellence is a choice!”
So glad to be on the same page and in the same world with you!
My best,
Max
October 17th, 2008 at 7:48 pm
Dear Terry,
I find this article/video particularly inspiring as I have gone through some some very rough times recently. Using this logic, I should become very “great”!
I especially liked the comment about excessive cargo being thrown overboard during violent storms. That is a great reminder that we need to constantly purge that which does not serve us.
October 17th, 2008 at 3:05 pm
Good advice, Terry. I’ve always been impressed with the saying, “Hiding in a hole is no way to see the world.”
It’s very true that many are letting fear, without a basis in fact, direct their lives.
October 17th, 2008 at 3:07 am
Yay Terry!! You said it right.
As you know, my bread and butter work comes from speaking and training, like yourself. Sometime I need to address psychological issues in my clients. One is not feeling entitled to be up there and speaking – the other is variations of victimhood: “My mother made me a… the goverment have… why doesn’t X do this to help …” And so on. Give someone 1000 fish and when it runs out he will blame you, give him a fishig lesson and tell him to take responsibility for feeding himself!!
I have had some mega serious “failures” and setbacks in my life – every one of them has enriched my abilities going forward. Comfort zone is dead zone.
AND – I am getting more work than ever right now as executives realise they need to gain more of an edge, the complacency is being replaced by the “Uh oh, I need to make some changes around here FAST.”
Look forward to seeing you again soon mate.
Fergus
October 17th, 2008 at 12:31 am
Hey Terry, great message!
plus, I love your website.
all the best,
Julie
October 16th, 2008 at 8:47 pm
“Comfort does not produce greatness!” True words! And important to remember in these disconcerting times.
But I **especially** liked your comment: “Whoever is elected and whichever party controls the reins of government, your success is ultimately up to you.” I wish that one sentence could be posted over the door of every polling precinct in America. The root of many of our problems as a society is that too many people have abdicated responsibility for their own success. Thanks for the reminder, Terry!
October 16th, 2008 at 8:09 pm
Great stuff- nice reality check. Congrats on beating the odds, I like your style!
October 16th, 2008 at 6:56 pm
Thanx, Jennifer!
Yep! It is time to reposition our thinking and get moving. Besides, it is exhilarating!
No, I’m not using Viddler. Using Final Cut for the video. Then I upload to YouTube and post it on my WordPress Blog (here). Besides it is a blast doing it!
Always nice to hear from you.
Terry
October 16th, 2008 at 6:45 pm
Great Message Terry! This “downturn” has all of my clients (and myself) refocusing..regrouping and then will will re-emerge bigger and better than before!
Quick question..do you use “viddler” to create your videos with type and music?
Jennifer Abernethy